Apparently talking about your life or your problems is bad and nobody wants to hear about it and if you do share something personal people are going to talk behind your back and even laugh about it. I seem to forget about this or probably I don’t care enough about it because I realize that I can’t stop talking about things that I shouldn’t talk about.
Like you know when your kid does or says a super embarrassing thing that might make people think that you are just a bad parent? Yeah…I share those a lot.
Also, sometimes I talk about some personal problems with people that have really no connection with me whatsoever…maybe we are coworkers but that’s about it.
So you know when someone asks you how was your weekend and you start sharing every single detail. Most of the time people just want to hear that is was fine and that’s it. They don’t really care about what you ate or where you went or that your cat peed in your clean laundry. No! People want to hear : it was fine, and yours?
The thing is that I’m socially awkward and I know it. I never know what to share and what not to share and when to stop. Sometimes I share things and after, my introvert mind keeps me awake worried that I might have said something that will make people judge me. I simply don’t really know how to stop being awkward.
I suppose writing about me makes me feel that I’m normal and that other people are probably like me and it’s probably ok and most probably nobody really cares and nobody judges me and nobody thinks that I’m such a strange caracter. Or at least I hope they don’t.
So can my introvert mind stop worrying so much already?