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We are judges of our own lives only…

Sometimes I get caught in the society circle and I forget that judging others is not my job. It’s funny how people think they are superior. It’s funny how people just look at someone and they instantly think they know everything about that someone.

I like to think that I’m not judgy, I accept who I am and do my best to accept others even if their values and way of being are different than mine.

I’m human though. And sometimes I forget that I am not perfect. I get caught in this circle of ‘perfection’ and I start agreeing with these people only to realize a bit later that this is not who I am. Who am I to judge?! We are all different and we all have our weaknesses and strengths and that is ok. I wish more people realized this! And I wish people would stop thinking that they are somehow superior just because they are different. There are these people that have a fast way of learning and just because they understand things faster they think they are better. I should not care about these people, and I normally don’t, but sometimes it gets to me. And when it does it kinda affects my mood and my way of being. I start being on defense all the time and I lose a bit of my self-confidence. Though I know I should always stay true to myself as I know who I am and what I am capable of, I start to doubt myself a bit. And I hate when this happens. I am still learning to stay focused and get out of a bad mood because in the end what matters is my well-being not what others think of me.

Do you get affected by other people’s opinion on you? How do you manage not to let people affect you?

Thanks for reading! πŸ˜ŠπŸ’™

CB. πŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ


I am a girl, a woman, a mother trying to enjoy life as much as I can. This is a personal blog with and about books, life, introverts and more. πŸ“–πŸ‘©β€πŸ’ΌπŸŒŸπŸ§šβ€β™€οΈ

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